Want pussy? Stop being a pussy

Being a pussy is a result of deep fears that a man can’t surpass. It’s living life as a passive person. So, it’s being a slave of its own thoughts and obeissant to the reality built by your entourage about woman, success and social dynamics.

A man who’s pussy is an effect of other people’s plans and decisions. He is always scared to open up to other people because he think he is wierd and uncalibrated. By means, not assuming his difference and nature as a masculine entity.

So, what makes a man weak, in this case, is his fear from saying the truth of what he is scared of because he won’t show off his realness and won’t be rejected from girls and his entourage. As a result, he deeply assume that people around him are living in the same loop of thoughts as he do. But, the truth is far from that.

Furthermore, i wanted to share with you this specific article because i was this shy, introvet and pussy being. I went through different phases and hardship. Over the years, i’ve been watching people around me stuck in the same bubble of fear and passiveness. As a result, i wanted to put these simple insights that can make a huge shift in your journey as a man.

Be the cause

Learn to do things for yourself as a man

Being pussy with woman is related to being pussy with yourself, which means you can’t deal with who you are. How would you deal with another person?

A real man is like a lion, he never ask for people to do him things. If he acknowledge his ability to something, he just do it, no matter what. Pussies wait for things to happen, they never go for it. They are used to mommy and daddy who take care of their shit.

You are not here to please anybody

Generally, a man who’s pussy have a tendancy to relay on other people’s states. He never do things for his own pleasure. His joy is the related to the other people joy, which provide him with validation and acceptance. a pussy is someone who try to make other people happy while he is living in sadness and insecurity.

So, man up and do what you desire the most. Never fear getting judged for being yourself because people appreciate you more when you remove these masks you built through the days.

Make your own decision

A lot of people would just love to be cheaps and follow wolves everywhere they go. So, they never take their own decision because they are scared of killing the vibe. It doesn’t mean you have to be opposed to every other decision. But, you do what you feel Ok with. You do what you feel like doing.

Make decisions based on what you want not what you fear

Just approach any girl you like

Field experience is king. As long as you didn’t took a chance to say ‘Hi’, you can’t judge. All what you’ve heard before about girls put it in the trash. Open a new page, you will never be pussy again. Go and say whatever comes up to your head, get rejected, go back and do it again.

As long as you never tried approaching girls, you can’t guess what do woman want.  cold approach in the street, bar or clubs is one of the best methods that can makes you look at things with rationality and stop you from being a pussy.

If you don’t have friends who are into going out to seduce women, i’ve wrote this specific article for you. Read that if you want to step up your game and get the girls you desire:
How To Go Out Alone To Approach The Women You Like 

Never escape the challenging times

challenge yourself and observe your mannerism

Challenging times are the best in order to evolve and expose the alpha man inside you. A real man learn generally under pressure. The moment he doesn’t feel comfortable and unstable in a situation in the right time to stick with it. You need to observe and uderstand how you react to things.

Learn to take a deep breath and watch how you behave when you lose control, especially in a harsh time. You will learn too much, just from seeing your attitude. Because, in the day to day life we get stuck in our head and we start thinking about other, then we forget who we are.

So, you should start to catch these repetitive attitudes, take notes of how you act, then you start to change them. So, being blocked with the same fake mannerism makes you a pussy.

Put yourself around people who challenges you the most

Put yourself around guys who are way better than you with woman. Those alphas who are very smooth and sexual with woman. These guys will absolutly crush your limiting beliefs. But, your mind will resist it and try to give millions of excuses to leave or surrender. As a result, you challenge that reality you built for years on bullshit.

The first time i experienced that i felt like an ignored child. I wanted to talk but it was an ego crush for me. I still remember that exact moment, these different expressions of the girls around real man’s vibe in that bar. My reality was just fucked. I tried to hide, dissepear or just quit that. But, i stayed, i was willing to challenge myself. Those guys became my mentors at that time.

I learned to challenge myself because it’s better to feel weak for now then to spend your whole life being a pussy. Furthermore, even your friends, parents or entourage will never give you this straight forward words. Because, they are deeply pussies too.

Being a pussy includs going safe

“gangsters do what they want, bitches do what they can” – RSD Tyler

Fear is your worst enemy. So, go for what you fear. Our minds are capable of making up things and make them appear as hard or impossible. But, the truth it’s only a matter of action taking. You can’t judge something before experiencing it.

Through this journey, i’ve noticed that the mind is very tricky in this case. Your mind will be always looking for stagnation. The brain fear what is new because it’s out of the comfort zone. But, we all know that to evolve we have to quit the comfort zone for ever.

Furthermore, the moment you quit this ease in your stagnating mind, you notice that reality is not what you built in the back of your head. Reality depends of the experiences you go through, if you doen’t experience, how could you judge something?

To resume

The real change is up to you gentalman. No one could take the decision for you. You are the only one who could relase himself from being a pussy and girls you like. Make your life more challeging, more exciting. Push all these limits you’ve built for years. Make your yourself better in order to find the lifestyle you desire.

Now is the right moment to change.

If you had an experience of being a pussy before, please share with us in the comment section below.

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