One of the hardest things that we face in our journey is taking a decision. Sometimes we feel stuck between two of many choices, but it’s been always hard to pick the right one, the one that will give you what you want out of life.
Many of us make the wrong decision sometimes because we have no clue on how to be selective when it comes to making a rational choice in a short and hard time of our lives.
So how do you make the right decision in order to evolve in all the problems you encounter on your journey?
let’s be real, I failed multiple times in order to find what clicks, I took the wrong path and hit the wall till I realized that too many days go by where I am getting stuck in the same loop, so I started to ASK myself:
WHY IS IT THAT EVERY TIME I GET STUCK IN THESE SITUATIONS I LOSE FULL CONTROL?
I finally decided to do something about it. In life, you are your own master, you need to find what is wrong with yourself, don’t expect someone else to do it for you.
I started going through a web research, watched tons of videos and started reading a couple of books about this matter. I felt that this issue lies in how HONEST you are with yourself. Being honest with how you feel at that specific time:
“BEING TOTALLY SINCERE WITH YOURSELF AND KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF SOMETHING FROM THE VERY BEGINNING”
This is the KEY to achieving your goals and getting to your destination in life.
Think about it in the SHORT TERM and the LONG TERM, write down what you want, that way when life puts obstacles in your path and you think it’s not what you want anymore, go back to that piece of paper, remind yourself of it… because honestly:
All of these emotions of giving up that you are getting at that moment, all these doubts is just your brain tricking you, they are just situational emotions, keep your mind on the prize
One last thing:
In order to choose what is the best decision to make, take a piece of paper and literally write the pros and cons …. Yes just like your teachers told you in middle school.
Write your pros and cons down, figure out what you want out of your Decision. Decide now if you need to commit to it or just walk away.
Drop a comment down below on your experience with taking the right decision and what you did in order to be rational especially in the hardest times.
The collective journey.